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My name is Theresa and I hope you enjoy my blog about life and all the little things that make life interesting. This blog covers a variety of topics including relationships, well-being, family life, and juicy lil' tidbits. If you find an article you like, please share it with others and spread the sunshine. ^_^

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Finding Little Moments of Happiness

Lately I have been feeling blah. Trying to balance my family, work, and social obligations has been taking a toll. A big part of it is because I’ve been so tired—and it’s my own fault. My 8 month old daughter has been sleeping from 10 pm to 7 am for the past two months. For many sleep-deprived parents, this probably sounds like a dream. But instead of taking advantage of this time to rest, I stay up until 2 am doing all the things I can’t fit in during the day.

So I start the day feeling run-down and cranky. My typical morning thoughts go something like this: I can’t wait until I don’t have to change diapers anymore. I wish I had more time to myself. I wish I wish I wish…poor me…blah blah blah.

After a little while I got sick of feeling sorry for myself. I needed a splash of cold water to the soul to wash away my “poor me” blues and kick start my happiness. We all get caught up in our personal cobwebs from time to time and need a good shake to get back on track.

Dealing with a Frenemy and Other Toxic Relationships

The Frenemy

Description: Just as the name implies, this two-faced creature is part friend, part enemy. On good days, the two of you get along splendidly and at times can feel just like bossom buddies. However, before long, something triggers a sleeping dragon within the Frenemy and out comes a blast of nastiness. This “blast” can take many forms including deceit, back-stabbing and jealousy.

How to Protect Yourself: Keep your friends close, but your Frenemy even closer. Actually, the best way is to stay on good terms with the Frenemy and provide the illusion of closeness without revealing too many personal details that may be used against you during rough patches. And always, always watch your back to be prepared for the next blast.

I Married My Boss

Is there a special someone you look forward to seeing at work? Read about my personal account on dating my boss and some lessons learned along the way. Scandalous? You decide.