As a general rule of thumb, being a good secret-keeper is often touted as an appealing characteristic. However this rule doesn’t apply if the person you are keeping the secret from is your boyfriend or girlfriend and the secret has the potential to send shockwaves through your relationship.
In my post Things to Disclose in a Relationship Before It Gets Too Serious on HealthyPlace.com, I talk about six relationship secrets that are potential deal breakers.
Here is an excerpt:
A typical dating scenario goes something like this: boy meets girl and they hit it off. They date long enough for boy to develop serious feelings for girl. Then girl suddenly drops what feels like a knee to the gut—she discloses one of those horrible relationship-altering things that should have been mentioned earlier. This can be summed up as the “woulda, coulda, shoulda” conundrum as in, “If only you woulda told me this earlier, I coulda dated other people and moved on with my life. Gee, you really shoulda told me…”
To read the full post, check out my blog, The Unlocked Life on HealthyPlace.com.
