We’ve always been told to do our best whether it means training everyday for that marathon, putting in overtime at work to get that promotion, or just making time for the important people in our lives. Why then, do so many of us make the mistake of settling for “okay” in a romantic relationship, one of the most important aspects of our lives?
Your boyfriend or girlfriend might be a nice person, have a good job, and be a fun date, but he or she still might not be the right person for you. Read my thoughts on about why people settle and some signs you may be settling for the wrong person on my post on HealthyPlace.com: The Mistake of Settling in a Relationship.
Here is an excerpt:
Settling is like buying an ill-fitting pair of shoes. You found something that meets a need and provides temporary satisfaction and happiness, but eventually the shoe starts rubbing you the wrong way, and you know that the fit isn’t right for you. But you feel like you ought to give this shoe a chance because you already invested in it. You might endure a few scratches and blisters before you decide to do something about it.
To read the full article, check out my blog, The Unlocked Life on HealthyPlace.com.
